It's all a compromise, there's that word again.
The only way you'll get rid of all fret buzz, is by having an experienced luthier flat your frets and then set medium sort of action.
The action on my strat plus is very low, you only need to lightly press the string and it's fretted. I like to play this way, it makes me quicker overall on the neck, and when i got used to the pressure i needed to apply, it was easier on the fingers too.
The only downside to a setup like this is buzzing, but as long as the buzz isn't amplified, it's not a problem.
How many times do you sit there playing acoustic on your electric?
I never do.