Well, we wouldn't have a working forum if we were dicks to everyone who turns up asking gear questions. D'you not think maybe that says something about you?
And respectfully, I think it's the job of the admins to decide when a thread is over, not yours.
Also, I wouldn't accuse anyone here of being "confrontational" if I were you. I don't know about everyone else, but I saw the post you made ripping into Alex over the "toaster jag" nonsense (as in, the post that would have got you banned if you hadn't edited it beyond recognition).