Yeah sharper break angle using a TOM doesn't increase tension. That is mostly string gauge and scale length. (Like how upping or dropping string gauge can require truss rod adjustment because of tension change.)
I don't mind TOM's. I have one on my purple Mascis because it came that way. I have added them to a few guitars. I don't like shimming my necks though and I like low action, so I haven't used them in awhile. Jamming some scrap cardboard credit cards, or wood shavings just doesn't appeal to me. I would rather find a bridge equivalent that doesn't need to be shimmed like a modified Mustang bridge, Jaguar/Jazzmaster bridge, Mastery, etc.
While personal tastes and aesthetics play a big role in any guitar mod, I think many would be fibbing just a little if they didn't admit a certain famous grunge guitarist famous for using Mustangs modded with TOM's didn't have anything to do with it. (Not all of course, but quite a few.)
Of course there are the Gibson crossover crowd who like the strings being spaced closer together from using Gibsons and are looking for that.